How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a 28-year-old woman in a relationship with ...

Are people embarrassed by their boyfriends now? Or is something more complicated going on? To me, it feels like the result of ...

I quickly glanced at my phone to make sure it was 2022 and not 1938. I was at a loss for words ― a rarity for me. The conversation dwindled, and I said goodbye, still stunned by what I’d heard. What ...

After two years of dating long-distance, I moved abroad to be with my boyfriend. We broke up after a few months, but I ...

MY boyfriend doesn’t really want me – he is slowly trying to turn me into a clone of his late wife. He’s 45, and I’m 39. We’ve been together for two years, and at first he seemed so ...

My boyfriend adores eating me out. He always wants to do it before we get to any penetration. He likes to pride himself on ...

‘I was guilty of the occasional flirt with him while he was taken, but I never did anything physical with him, so I feel I ...

Under the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (DVDS), also known as Clare's Law, people concerned their partner or ex-partner ...

First came the texts. Then the ambush. Then the EMTs, the police, and the possibility of the psych ward. For one former ...

A MARRIED colleague chased me for months, culminating in a night of incredible sex. But now he has completely blanked me. I’m devastated. I am 26 and my colleague is 31. Before this ...

When you grow up experiencing trauma – whether you realize it at the time or not – it can have unpredictable and distressing ...